Staying in > Going out this Valentine's Day. We’ve got your gift covered for the big night in.

Ashley and Marc

In Bed with Ashley + Marc Merrill

When talking couples, one of our favorites is, of course, our founder Ashley Merrill and her husband, Marc. As a dual-entrepreneur household with two kids, describing their days as simply busy would probably be an understatement. We got in bed with the two of them to chat about balancing it all, secret couple languages, and still making time to connect as a couple.       WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU WAS?   A: I think Marc thought that I was hardcore (I was marathon training at the time) and wholesome (I was always into cooking and domestic things). M: I think she barely gave me a second thought after we met for the first time.     TRADE LIVES WITH EACH OTHER FOR ONE DAY...WHAT DO YOU THINK IT CONSISTS OF?   A: If I'm Marc... I wake up at 2am and tiptoe downstairs to play World of Warcraft. I come back to bed around 4:30am with the intention of going back to sleep (only actually happens 50% of the time). Ashley is in bed reading emails. I try to cuddle her but she is deeply engrossed in what she's doing so we touch toes and I grab my phone and start chatting with people on Warhammer threads, scroll Instagram or Twitter, and read random articles. Our son comes, already annoyed that we're going slow despite the fact that it's only 7am lol. If it's one of the days Ashley takes the kids, I go downstairs and get breakfast started for the kids. Vesper comes downstairs half asleep. The kids both complain about the breakfast I've made despite the fact that they usually picked it. Ashley comes down and we chat about our schedules, kiss, and she heads out. My days vary but lately, I might have a call or meeting with Riot or for one of my projects with Unite America or Represent Us. Squeeze in a workout of weights and maybe some light cardio. Around midday, Ashley's dad Dan comes over and we work on the treehouse that we are making in the backyard for the kids. In the evening I squeeze in some more video games before the kids eat dinner. As they finish up dinner, Ash and I chat for a few minutes while our nanny helps the kids get ready for bed. Often Ash is pretty "work mode" at this time of day and so we talk about what she's thinking through at the office. Around 7:15pm we head upstairs and read books to the kids. They go to sleep around 8pm and Ash and I usually spend the next hour in bed eating dinner, snuggling, and watching some kind of comedy (we love Bill Burr!) or series (Netflix's Explained is a total fave). Repeat. M: I think we would both enjoy switching places. She is always in “go go go” mode and I enjoy being focused on making things happen. We wake up early, handle kid stuff, get out the door for work, do 1000 things in a day to keep Lunya moving, go to a boxing class at lunch, come back and crush more in the afternoon followed by heading home to be with the kids before they go to bed, then collapse exhausted and Netflix and chill before going to sleep.     WHAT'S ONE THING YOU HELD BACK FROM YOUR PARTNER IN THE EARLY STAGES? A: I didn't so much hold back, but I changed a lot since the early days of the relationship. Early on I oriented my life much more around his schedule and was much more emotionally available. As our live's complexity has increased, I have existed in survival mode for so long that I have a lot less emotional vulnerability to give. I know that’s been really hard and I’m trying to work on finding some middle ground here. M: My love of video games.     WHAT'S THE MOST EMBARRASSING HABIT YOU SHARE AS A COUPLE?   A: I trim his nose hairs.  M: We do lovey talk with our own silly vocabulary.      WHAT'S ONE THING PEOPLE WOULD BE SURPRISED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU AS A COUPLE?   A: I’m not a fan of video games.  M: We smash and wrestle around when we are loving.     WHAT LAHGO AND LUNYA PIECES ARE YOU WEARING ON THE BIG NIGHT IN?   A: I have become a devotee of the Cozy Cotton Silk collection. I love the Cozy Cotton Silk Henley and the Cozy Cotton Silk Bike Short. M: All of it.  S H O P  H I S  L O O K
Ang + Paul

In Bed with Angela + Paul

Meet friends of Lunya, Angela and Paul. We’ve known them for a while and have always respected how even as working parents with two kids, they still manage to make space for their marriage. We went into the bedroom with them to find out how they make time to “date,” why it’s a good idea to keep bathroom stuff for later in the relationship, and why they’re so fun both in bed and out.     WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU WAS?   A: “She’s super hot.”P: “He’s pretty good-looking but there’s a lot of work to do with that wardrobe.”     TRADE LIVES WITH EACH OTHER FOR ONE DAY...WHAT DO YOU THINK IT CONSISTS OF?   A: Paul wakes up at 7:30am, is awesome and goes in to feed our son Cooper, takes a shower, remembers to shave, plays poker on his phone, has breakfast, thinks about when he is going for a run, takes both kids to school, drives to work listening to That’s the Way I Heard It podcast by Mike Rowe, works, reads ESPN on his phone occasionally, thinks about when he is signing up for his next marathon, gets home, walks in the door and takes over on kid duty with whichever of our kids is being more difficult, puts our 4-year-old daughter Zoe to bed, helps with whatever housework needs to get done (dishes, laundry folding, walking our dog, etc.), we go to bed OR sometimes he works out in the garage in the evening before coming to bed. P: Angela wakes up at 6:15am, assuming her alarm goes off. She has the only phone in the world that at least 2x per week has a silent alarm. Despite taking a lot longer to get herself ready (and usually running late), she always finds time to help either of the kids and sometimes even make a delicious breakfast before heading out the door. She kills it at work everyday with people that don’t even report to her coming up to her as if she’s their manager and getting help with any issues they have. She leaves early by most people’s standards but no one cares because she’s so good at what she does. She then comes home to start her second job: picking up the kids at daycare, making them dinner, and packing for school the next day. When I get home later in the evening, my first indication as to how her day went is whether or not she already poured herself some wine or if she waited for me.     WHAT'S ONE THING YOU HELD BACK FROM YOUR PARTNER IN THE EARLY STAGES? A: Definitely farting/pooping/bathroom decorum. P: Bathroom humor. It’s probably a good thing we didn’t combine these two until we were further into our relationship.     WHAT'S ONE THING PEOPLE WOULD BE SURPRISED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU AS A COUPLE (IN BED)?   A + P: Nothing. Anything anyone assumes is probably fairly accurate. We’re as fun in bed (if not more fun) than we are in real life.     WHAT LAHGO AND LUNYA PIECES ARE YOU WEARING ON THE BIG NIGHT IN?   A: Angela: I often wear the Pima Long Cardigan and nothing else, but I've been eyeing the Washable Silk Slip Dress. P: Lahgo Organic Pima Short.  S H O P  H I S  L O O K
Lyndie + Greg

In Bed with Lyndie + Greg

Say hi to Lyndie and Greg, longtime friends of the brand and truly some of the most interesting people you’ll ever meet. They inspire us in so many ways. They know how to keep that flame burning and are endlessly curious about life. They’re wise, but still always learning new things. It’s not an exaggeration to say that we kind of want to be them when we grow up.     WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU WAS?   L: I was at work, wearing a lab coat, hair in a bun — it was a first meet-and-greet for a blind date set-up. I must have seemed pretty buttoned up to him. I was horribly nervous — felt like the prize pig at the county fair. G: Either batshit crazy or eccentrically brilliant. Possibly worth another tête-à-tête, but I need to learn more about his "business interests in Hawaii." (Can he really play guitar?)     TRADE LIVES WITH EACH OTHER FOR ONE DAY...WHAT DO YOU THINK IT CONSISTS OF?   L: Greg wakes up early every day to a world of Infinite Possibilities! He'll savor the aroma and taste of the first cup of coffee, then it’s ZOOOOM into the day!! Turn on MSNBC...check emails...conference calls...connect with old friends..make new ones...read interesting stuff...WHAT? It’s time for dinner? Savor a glass of wine with his girl...cook some veggies from the garden...share the day...YAWN...hit the sheets...snuggle...ZZZZ...Repeat. G: I have to figure out my 50,000 words to use for the day and mentally gear up for the psyche sessions with my esthete clients. Always have to remember to drink lots of water and figure out how early I can get Greg to eat dinner!     WHAT'S ONE THING YOU HELD BACK FROM YOUR PARTNER IN THE EARLY STAGES? L: How weird I really am. EG: my second grade papier-mâché mask art project was “Cro Magnon Man”. G: My balance sheet. HA!     WHAT'S THE MOST EMBARRASSING HABIT YOU SHARE AS A COUPLE?   L: Our ever-morphing nicknames for each other: His — Biscuit, Bix, MixtaMine — Kitty, Kitty Glitter, Cat Litter G: Fart contests     WHAT'S ONE THING PEOPLE WOULD BE SURPRISED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU AS A COUPLE (IN BED)?   L: Ask ‘Pilo’, my anthropomorphic, anti-wrinkle face pillow that I sleep with EVERY night...he’s heard it all! G: When we get up in the morning, we immediately compare our "sleep quality" charts (sleep cycle app) to see who got over 90%. (She sleeps 9 hours a day...)     WHAT LAHGO AND LUNYA PIECES ARE YOU WEARING ON THE BIG NIGHT IN?   L: The Lunya Washable Silk Robe and a smile.G: I want to know when Lahgo will start making cashmere boxer shorts. :) S H O P  H I S  L O O K
Natasha + Freya

In Bed with Natasha + Freya

Finding time to spice things up can be hard when you both work full time and have a toddler (and some fur babies) running around. Add another pregnancy to that equation and it may seem all but impossible. Somehow cool couple Freya and Natasha make it all work. Find out how they sweeten things up in the bedroom (snacks...lots of snacks).        WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU WAS?   N: That my outfit made no sense (and she was right — I had split my pants walking into the party where we met, so the party host gave me a skirt to wear that didn't match...)F: That I was a catch!     TRADE LIVES WITH EACH OTHER FOR ONE DAY...WHAT DO YOU THINK IT CONSISTS OF?   N: Getting a little extra rest. I'm often asleep earlier than Tash and wake up later. Water and coffee are then hand-delivered to me by Tash while I'm still in bed. I pool to work which is where my work day actually starts — the rest of the day is lots of putting together orders/analyses around ops, a perfectly charming kind-but-urgent way of inspiring people to get shit done for me, meetings, always a lunch and snack break! Then I come home to Tash and Remy (Tash always picks him up from preschool — the school is a quarter mile from Coolhaus' office!), where I cook dinner (Blue Apron) and we enjoy one another's company as a family. Tash gives me a break while she puts Remy to bed (I catch up on reading/ordering shit on Amazon/Instacart, ha!). Then Tash and I watch our latest fave shows: Dickinson, Servant, The Good Place... F: Tash basically caters to all my needs as noted above - ha! - while being a boss at work all day and keeping Remy entertained and at bay at home as he’s quite the energetic kid.     WHAT'S ONE THING YOU HELD BACK FROM YOUR PARTNER IN THE EARLY STAGES? N: Inability on Excel. F: Inability to make cocktails.     WHAT'S THE MOST EMBARRASSING HABIT YOU SHARE AS A COUPLE?   N: We share a toothbrush!  F: Ditto that.     WHAT'S ONE THING PEOPLE WOULD BE SURPRISED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU AS A COUPLE (IN BED)?   N: For two extremely busy people, we watch more TV than anyone I know... and we love watching horrible lesbian movies! So bad, yet so good! F: We both dated men and that Tash is the only woman I’ve ever been with!     WHAT LAHGO AND LUNYA PIECES ARE YOU WEARING ON THE BIG NIGHT IN?   N: The Organic Pima Romper.F: Definitely the Washable Silk Robe
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Set

$178

8 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Set

$178

8 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Sleep Mask

$48

8 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Sleep Mask

$48

8 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Button Down Pant Set

$258

5 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Button Down Pant Set

$258

5 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Supportive Modal Sleep Bralette

$50

7 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Supportive Modal Sleep Brief

$45

7 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Cozy Cotton Silk Henley

$218

3 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Cozy Cotton Silk Henley

$218

3 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Cozy Cotton Silk Bike Short

$118

3 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Cozy Cotton Silk Bike Short

$118

3 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Tee Set

$198

9 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Tee Set

$198

9 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Slip Dress

$198

7 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Slip Dress

$198

7 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Supportive Modal Well-Rounded Bralette

$55

7 colors

+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag
+Add to Bag

Washable Silk Scrunchie

$18

9 colors